Sensuality is one of the most adorable attraction of Japanese Dolls.Mostly, they are portrait as submissive and obedient servants.The more of us who can be loud and proud about our unconventional relationships, the more we’ll break down society’s prejudices.

Unfortunately, the usual double standard applies: older man, younger woman — no one bats an eyelid.

Older woman, younger man — somehow deemed socially unacceptable.

Of course, the "First" in FTV is a joke--don't they just go by "FTV" the way United Parcel Service is just UPS or Federal Express is just Fed Ex?

Regardless, they've conquered the girl next door market long ago.

If applicants and their parents want to know whether the dating scene at a particular college is geared more towards wild hookups or traditional relationships, the best barometer will always be the ratio of women to men on campus.

And, no, it’s not the mostly male colleges where the hookup culture reigns supreme. Because the way today’s heterosexual college students describe sex and dating at their own schools matches up with the scholarly research on gender ratios and how they affect behavior.

As I explain in my book “DATE-ONOMICS: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game,” when men are in oversupply, the dating culture emphasizes courtship and monogamy.

But when women are in oversupply—as they are today at most U. colleges and universities—men play the field and women are more likely to be treated as sex objects.

[D]ating in the traditional sense of the word had been replaced by ‘hooking up’ as the predominant sexual interaction on campus.” Kring shared the story of a young woman who’d lost hope of finding a college boyfriend and wound up losing her virginity in a drunken threesome with two male classmates. “She felt awkward,” Kring wrote, “and wanted help in keeping her sexual encounter private from other students.” Women at disproportionately female schools talk openly about their frustrations.

“Everyone’s self-esteem takes a hit,” a young woman at 75%-female Sarah Lawrence College told me.

Yes, the sex is great, and the six-pack abs are nice, but what I also get out of my approach to dating is meeting men I admire and respect.