I remember taking a lot of time on it — making sure to pick the exact words to describe exactly what I was looking for.

The idea of sleeping with these men made my skin crawl, even though they were super sweet.

It was around this time that I created The Naked Test, a test in which I had to decide by date three whether or not I wanted to ever be naked with the guy.

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But I also was wasting my time with a lot of people who weren’t looking for what I was trying to find: a real connection that could grow.

So about a year ago, I decided that I would only pursue dates with men who were looking for a relationship. So I was left with guys who were genuinely interested in finding a partner and settling down — right? Because, as I’ve written before, saying you want a relationship and actually being in a relationship are actually two completely different things.So after a few months, I readjusted my “type.” When prince charming still wasn’t showing up, I tried to be a little more flexible and free with my requirements.I was lucky to learn that lesson early on in my dating life — that the perfect partner doesn’t exist, and you shouldn’t expect the people you’re dating to fit neatly into a box of “must haves.” But I took that idea a little too far, and completely abandoned my list completely, dating anyone and everyone who swiped right on me.You simply join and meet people who match you perfectly! Open your mind to new experience and your heart to new people! (Life has a way of shitting on you all at once, doesn’t it?